Born to Blossom, Bloom to Perish

Friends with benefits

I’m completely comfortable with sex, sexual things and my sexuality but this is something that I am not comfortable with. Why? Because your relationship with that person is built around thoes ‘benefits’. Getting to know the persons dislikes, likes and personality are second to sex. The relationship is built on nothing solid. The main reason for that relationship is sex and only sex. Let me explain… When you’re involved with Miss X with benefits and then you get in a ‘real’ relationship with Miss B you lose any little bit of that relationship you had with Miss X. And when it doesn’t work out with Miss B you go back to Miss X until another Miss B comes along. It almost makes me think that people are scared to get into a relationship with Miss X for the fact of getting hurt. In reality, you got hurt by Miss B, and Miss X is right where you left her. It doesn’t make much sense. I don’t believe true relationships(friendships) should be able to be ended in the blink of an eye or because of a single person. “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow. ”